People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water ... because it works ... or at least, it can work. Women are generally afraid to meet a man she was chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things can happen ... and I must say they have the right to be cautious in the extreme. It is not only wise but vital. So what's a nice guy to do? You're not a pervert, a pedophile or an eccentric. You're just a nice guy looking for "it" girl for you.
You must be patient. Do not press him for personal information like his real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Do not try to rush into meeting face to face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.
Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and work. A good relationship has never been and never will be built on lies and deception. Finally, discover the truth anyway and you're back to square one.
A picture is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of you doing your daily activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world, it would not just watch your head.
Once opened the discussion on meeting face to face for the first time, suggesting that meet in a public place during the day and bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You have told the truth about himself and has already seen many pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.
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