Online dating is not a competition between males competing for the attention of a woman. Grow. Change your mindset to "win" a "search". It is not high school. They are adults and have been for some time. Your attitude is the most important asset you have. You like and do not concentrate all the things that are not your idea of the perfect man ... that all women want.
What women want, you ask? It is an old question. Being the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and do not want.
Women want a man to be sure ... NO is an arrogant idiot. There is a big difference. You have to love and not self-depreciation, but it is necessary to comply with what you think you are God's gift to them and just fall from heaven. I do not want to think that just fell from heaven and are a kind of ideal, either. They can not live with this expectation.
Women want a communicator. "The strong silent type" is really attractive at all. They think you're probably not an original idea in your head, and probably have never heard a word they said, is, or who simply do not care what they said or even heard what they said. They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and want you to think I'm interesting enough to make intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.
Women do not want to be a prize. Not to be a trophy. They want to be the only woman who wants to be with her.
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